Rules of thumb in daily life
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1 Personal Development
1.1 Building Habits
📖 Effective techniques for establishing and maintaining positive habits.
“Start small and build gradually.”
— James Clear, Atomic Habits (2018)
Overwhelming yourself with too much change at once makes it harder to stick to new habits.
“Make it easy to do the right thing.”
— BJ Fogg, Tiny Habits (2019)
Remove barriers and create cues that make it easier to perform desired behaviors.
“Habit stacking: Link new habits to existing ones.”
— BJ Fogg, Tiny Habits (2019)
Attach new habits to established routines to make them more likely to stick.
“Don’t break the chain.”
— Jerry Seinfeld, Personal quote (1998)
Mark off each day you complete your habit to create a visual representation of your progress and stay motivated.
“Focus on progress over perfection.”
— James Clear, Atomic Habits (2018)
Don’t get discouraged by setbacks; every small improvement brings you closer to your goal.
“Make it enjoyable.”
— Charles Duhigg, The Power of Habit (2012)
Find ways to make your habits pleasurable, as you’re more likely to repeat actions you enjoy.
“Habit formation takes time.”
— Unknown, Common wisdom (None)
Don’t expect to establish new habits overnight; consistency and patience are key.
“Track your habits to identify patterns and make adjustments.”
— James Clear, Atomic Habits (2018)
By monitoring your habits, you can pinpoint areas for improvement and stay on track.
“Build an accountability system.”
— Charles Duhigg, The Power of Habit (2012)
Share your goals with others or join a support group for encouragement and accountability.
“Don’t give up easily.”
— Unknown, Proverb (None)
Perseverance is crucial; even when you stumble, keep striving towards your desired habits.
1.2 Goal Setting
📖 Guidelines for setting achievable and meaningful goals.
“If you want to change the world, start with yourself.”
— Mahatma Gandhi, The Collected Works of Mahatma Gandhi (1948)
Personal transformation is the foundation for positive change in the world.
“The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.”
— Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance (1841)
Our choices shape our destiny, and we have the power to create the life we desire.
“Goals are not just about what you want to achieve, but who you want to become.”
— Unknown, Internet (Unknown)
Goals should align with our values and aspirations, helping us grow as individuals.
“Set SMART goals: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound.”
— George Doran, Management Review (1981)
Clarity and structure in goal-setting enhance the chances of success.
“Break down large goals into smaller, manageable steps.”
— Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich (1937)
Overwhelming tasks become less daunting when divided into smaller, achievable chunks.
“Write your goals down.”
— Brian Tracy, Eat That Frog! (2001)
Writing down goals solidifies them, making them more tangible and real.
“Visualize yourself achieving your goals.”
— Florence Scovel Shinn, The Game of Life and How to Play It (1925)
Imagining success helps create a mental blueprint and boosts confidence.
“Don’t compare yourself to others. Your journey is unique.”
— Unknown, Internet (Unknown)
External comparisons can lead to self-doubt; focus on your own progress and growth.
“Celebrate your successes, big and small.”
— Oprah Winfrey, O, The Oprah Magazine (2004)
Acknowledging achievements, no matter how minor, builds motivation and self-esteem.
“Never give up on your dreams.”
— Nelson Mandela, Long Walk to Freedom (1994)
Persistence and resilience are crucial for overcoming challenges and achieving aspirations.
1.3 Productivity
📖 Strategies for maximizing efficiency and effectiveness in daily tasks.
“Eat the frog first.”
— Mark Twain, Autobiography of Mark Twain (1924)
Tackle your most daunting task first thing in the morning, when your willpower is strongest.
“The 80/20 rule.”
— Unknown, Unknown (Unknown)
20% of your efforts will produce 80% of your results. Focus on the most impactful tasks.
“Parkinson’s law.”
— Cyril Northcote Parkinson, Parkinson’s Law (1955)
Work expands to fill the time available for its completion. Set realistic deadlines to avoid procrastination.
“The Pomodoro Technique.”
— Francesco Cirillo, The Pomodoro Technique (1980)
Break your work into 25-minute intervals, separated by short breaks. This helps maintain focus and prevents burnout.
“The Eisenhower Matrix.”
— Dwight D. Eisenhower, Unknown (Unknown)
Prioritize tasks based on urgency and importance. Focus on tasks that are both urgent and important, and delegate or eliminate the rest.
“The SMART rule.”
— George T. Doran, Management Review (1981)
Goals should be Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound.
“The Zeigarnik effect.”
— Bluma Zeigarnik, Gestalt Psychology in the USSR (1927)
People tend to remember unfinished tasks better than completed tasks. Use this to your advantage by breaking large projects into smaller, manageable chunks.
“The law of diminishing returns.”
— Unknown, Unknown (Unknown)
As you put more effort into a task, the additional benefits you gain will gradually decrease. Know when to stop pushing and move on to other tasks.
“The Pareto principle.”
— Vilfredo Pareto, Cours d’économie politique (1897)
80% of the results come from 20% of the effort. Focus on the most impactful activities and delegate or eliminate the rest.
“The power of habit.”
— Charles Duhigg, The Power of Habit (2012)
Habits can either help or hinder your productivity. Identify and cultivate good habits, and break or replace bad ones.
1.4 Decision Making
📖 Rules of thumb for making well-informed and rational decisions.
“Don’t make decisions when you’re emotional.”
— Unknown, Common wisdom (Unknown)
Emotions can cloud your judgment and lead to poor decisions.
“Gather all the information you can before making a decision.”
— Unknown, Common sense (Unknown)
The more information you have, the better equipped you’ll be to make a sound decision.
“Consider the pros and cons of each option before making a decision.”
— Unknown, Logical thinking (Unknown)
Weighing the pros and cons can help you identify the best option.
“Don’t be afraid to ask for help when making a decision.”
— Unknown, Common sense (Unknown)
Other people can provide valuable insights and perspectives.
“Trust your gut.”
— Unknown, Intuition (Unknown)
Sometimes, your instincts can guide you to the right decision.
“Don’t overthink it.”
— Unknown, Common sense (Unknown)
Sometimes, the best decisions are made quickly and without a lot of deliberation.
“Be prepared to change your mind.”
— Unknown, Flexibility (Unknown)
New information or circumstances may require you to reconsider your decision.
“Don’t regret your decisions.”
— Unknown, Acceptance (Unknown)
Dwelling on past decisions can be a waste of time and energy.
“Learn from your mistakes.”
— Unknown, Experience (Unknown)
Mistakes are opportunities to learn and grow.
“Be decisive.”
— Unknown, Leadership (Unknown)
Indecisiveness can lead to missed opportunities.
1.5 Self-Discipline
📖 Principles for cultivating self-control and overcoming procrastination.
“The 5-Second Rule”
— Mel Robbins, The 5-Second Rule: Transform Your Life, Work, and Confidence with Everyday Courage (2017)
When you get an impulse to do something, count down from 5 and take action before you talk yourself out of it.
“The 2-Minute Rule”
— David Allen, Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity (2001)
If a task takes less than 2 minutes to do, do it now instead of procrastinating.
“The Pomodoro Technique”
— Francesco Cirillo, The Pomodoro Technique: The Acclaimed Time-Management System That Has Transformed How We Work (1992)
Work for 25 minutes, then take a 5-minute break. After four cycles, take a longer break of 20-30 minutes.
“The Eisenhower Matrix”
— Dwight D. Eisenhower, N/A (1950s)
Classify your tasks based on urgency and importance, prioritizing tasks in the following order: urgent and important, important but not urgent, urgent but not important, and not urgent or important.
“The SMART Goal-Setting Framework”
— George T. Doran, There’s a S.M.A.R.T. Way to Write Management’s Goals and Objectives (1981)
Set goals that are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-Bound.
“The Power of Habit”
— Charles Duhigg, The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business (2012)
Habits are formed through a cycle of cue, routine, and reward. To change a habit, identify the cue and reward, and replace the routine with a new one.
“The 10-Minute Rule”
— Gretchen Rubin, The Happiness Project: Or, Why I Spent a Year Trying to Sing in the Morning, Clean My Closets, Fight Right, Read Aristotle, and Generally Have More Fun (2009)
If you don’t feel like doing something, force yourself to do it for 10 minutes. If you still don’t want to do it after 10 minutes, you can stop.
“The 3-Second Rule”
— Alex Banayan, The Third Door: The Wild Quest to Uncover How the World’s Most Successful People Launched Their Careers (2018)
When you hesitate to do something, count down from 3 and force yourself to take action before the countdown ends.
“The Accountability Mirror”
— Tony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within: How to Take Immediate Control of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial Life (1991)
Every morning, stand in front of a mirror and list three things you’re grateful for, three things you’re going to accomplish today, and three affirmations.
“The 4-Second Rule”
— Timothy Ferriss, The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich (2007)
If you have an idea, act on it within 4 seconds or you’ll likely talk yourself out of it.
1.6 Emotional Intelligence
📖 Insights into understanding and managing one’s own emotions and those of others.
“Know Thyself”
— Socrates, The Socratic Method (BCE 470)
Understanding your own motivations, strengths, and weaknesses is crucial for emotional intelligence.
“Practice Active Listening”
— Stephen Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (1989)
真正地關注他人所說的內容，並理解他們的觀點，有助於建立人際關係並減少誤解。
“Manage Your Stress”
— American Psychological Association, Stress in America (2017)
Chronic stress can impair emotional regulation, so finding healthy ways to manage stress is essential for emotional well-being.
“Cultivate Self-Compassion”
— Kristin Neff, Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself (2011)
對自己友善並接納自己的缺點，有助於建立積極的自尊和彈性。
“Build Emotional Resilience”
— Martin Seligman, Learned Optimism (1991)
Developing the ability to bounce back from setbacks and challenges is crucial for emotional resilience.
“Practice Empathy”
— Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence (1995)
了解和分享他人的感受，有助於建立同理心並改善人際關係。
“Set Emotional Boundaries”
— Melody Beattie, Codependent No More (1986)
了解自己的情緒界限並學會保護它們，有助於防止倦怠和情緒耗竭。
“Be Authentic”
— Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection (2010)
保持真實並接受自己的真實自我，有助於建立自尊和建立有意義的關係。
“Continuously Learn and Grow”
— Carol Dweck, Mindset (2006)
擁抱成長心態並不斷尋求提升自我的方法，有助於培養情緒智力。
“Seek Professional Help When Needed”
— National Alliance on Mental Illness, Seeking Help (2022)
不要害怕尋求專業人士的幫助，因為他們可以提供客觀的觀點並提供應對機制。