12  Special Needs Parenting

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12.1 Behavior

📖 Myths about the causes and treatment of challenging behaviors in children with special needs.

12.1.1 item Myth: Challenging behaviors are always caused by a child’s disability.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Better alternative belief: Challenging behaviors can be caused by a variety of factors, including the child’s disability, their environment, and their individual needs.
  • explanation:
    • Explanation: While a child’s disability may contribute to their challenging behaviors, it is not always the sole cause. Environmental factors, such as the child’s home environment, school environment, and social interactions, can also play a role. Additionally, each child is unique and may have individual needs that need to be addressed in order to reduce challenging behaviors.

12.1.2 item Myth: Children with special needs should be punished more severely for challenging behaviors.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Better alternative belief: Children with special needs should be disciplined in a way that is appropriate for their individual needs and abilities.
  • explanation:
    • Explanation: Punishing a child with special needs more severely for challenging behaviors is not effective and can actually make the behaviors worse. Instead, it is important to use positive discipline techniques that focus on teaching the child appropriate behaviors and helping them to understand the consequences of their actions.

12.1.3 item Myth: Challenging behaviors are a sign of bad parenting.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Better alternative belief: Challenging behaviors are not always a sign of bad parenting.
  • explanation:
    • Explanation: While parenting practices can certainly influence a child’s behavior, challenging behaviors are often caused by factors beyond a parent’s control. These factors may include the child’s disability, their environment, or their individual needs. It is important for parents to remember that they are not alone and that there is help available to support them.

12.1.4 item Myth: There is only one right way to parent a child with special needs.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Better alternative belief: There is no one right way to parent a child with special needs.
  • explanation:
    • Explanation: Every child is unique and what works for one child may not work for another. It is important for parents to find a parenting approach that works for them and their child. This may involve trial and error, and it is important to be patient and flexible.

12.1.5 item Myth: Parents of children with special needs should always put their child’s needs first.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Better alternative belief: Parents of children with special needs need to take care of themselves in order to be able to care for their child.
  • explanation:
    • Explanation: It is important for parents of children with special needs to take care of their own physical and emotional health. This means eating healthy, getting enough sleep, and exercising. It also means taking time for themselves to relax and recharge. When parents are healthy and happy, they are better able to care for their child.

12.2 Education

📖 Myths about the best educational approaches for children with special needs.

12.2.1 item Children with special needs should be educated in separate schools or classrooms.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Children with special needs should be educated in inclusive settings whenever possible.
  • explanation:
    • Inclusive education provides children with special needs the opportunity to learn and grow alongside their typically developing peers. This can help them develop social skills, build self-esteem, and achieve their full potential.

12.2.2 item Children with special needs can’t learn as much as other children.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Children with special needs can learn just as much as other children, but they may need different ways of learning.
  • explanation:
    • Children with special needs may need specialized instruction, assistive technology, or other supports to help them learn. However, they are capable of learning and achieving success in school.

12.2.3 item Parents of children with special needs should make all the decisions about their child’s education.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Parents should be involved in their child’s education, but they should also work closely with the child’s teachers and other professionals to make decisions that are in the child’s best interests.
  • explanation:
    • Parents have valuable insights into their child’s needs, but they may not have all the information they need to make informed decisions about their child’s education. Teachers and other professionals can provide valuable input and help parents make decisions that are in the child’s best interests.

12.2.4 item Children with special needs are disruptive and shouldn’t attend regular classes.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Children with special needs can be successful in regular classes with the right supports.
  • explanation:
    • Children with special needs may need some additional support, such as a paraprofessional or assistive technology, to help them succeed in regular classes. However, they are just as capable of learning and participating in class activities as their typically developing peers.

12.2.5 item Children with special needs will never be able to live independently.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • With the right supports, children with special needs can live full and independent lives.
  • explanation:
    • Children with special needs may need some additional support to live independently, such as housing assistance or job training. However, with the right supports, they can live full and independent lives.

12.3 Inclusion

📖 Myths about the benefits and challenges of including children with special needs in general education classrooms.

12.3.1 item Children with special needs will hold back the learning of typically developing children.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Inclusion can actually benefit all students by promoting a more diverse and inclusive learning environment.
  • explanation:
    • Research has shown that students with and without disabilities benefit from learning together. Students with disabilities can learn from their typically developing peers, and typically developing students can learn about and develop empathy for people with disabilities.

12.3.2 item Children with special needs are too disruptive to be included in general education classrooms.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • With proper support, children with special needs can be successful in general education classrooms.
  • explanation:
    • There are a variety of supports that can be put in place to help children with special needs succeed in general education classrooms, such as one-on-one support, small group instruction, and assistive technology.

12.3.3 item Parents of children with special needs are overprotective and don’t want their children to be included.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Parents of children with special needs want what is best for their children, and that often includes inclusion.
  • explanation:
    • Parents of children with special needs want their children to have the same opportunities as other children. Inclusion can provide children with special needs with the opportunity to learn and grow in a more diverse and inclusive environment.

12.3.4 item It is too expensive to include children with special needs in general education classrooms.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Inclusion can actually save money in the long run by reducing the need for special education services.
  • explanation:
    • Children with special needs who are included in general education classrooms are less likely to need expensive special education services, such as one-on-one instruction or placement in a separate school.

12.3.5 item Inclusion is not possible for all children with special needs.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • With the right supports, all children with special needs can be included in general education classrooms.
  • explanation:
    • There is a wide range of supports that can be put in place to help children with special needs succeed in general education classrooms. With the right supports, all children with special needs can benefit from inclusion.

12.4 Medical

📖 Myths about the medical care and treatment of children with special needs.

12.4.1 item Children with special needs are more likely to get sick than other children.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • While children with special needs may have some health issues that make them more susceptible to certain illnesses, they are not generally more likely to get sick than other children.
  • explanation:
    • Children with special needs may have weaker immune systems or other health conditions that make them more susceptible to certain illnesses, but they are not generally more likely to get sick than other children if they receive proper care and medical attention.

12.4.2 item Children with special needs need to be treated differently from other children.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Children with special needs should be treated with the same respect and dignity as other children.
  • explanation:
    • Children with special needs should be treated with the same respect and dignity as other children. While they may need some additional support and accommodations, they should not be treated as if they are different or inferior.

12.4.3 item Parents of children with special needs are always stressed and overwhelmed.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • While parenting a child with special needs can be challenging, it is not always stressful and overwhelming.
  • explanation:
    • Parenting a child with special needs can be challenging, but it is not always stressful and overwhelming. There are many resources and support systems available to parents of children with special needs, and they can learn to cope with the challenges and enjoy the rewards of parenting a child with special needs.

12.4.4 item Children with special needs will never be able to live independently.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Many children with special needs are able to live independently with the right support.
  • explanation:
    • With the right support, many children with special needs are able to live independently. They may need some assistance with certain tasks, but they can learn to live full and happy lives.

12.4.5 item There is no hope for children with special needs.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • There is always hope for children with special needs.
  • explanation:
    • There is always hope for children with special needs. With the right support, they can learn to live full and happy lives.

12.5 Parenting

📖 Myths about the challenges and rewards of parenting children with special needs.

12.5.1 item Children with special needs are a burden to their families.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Children with special needs can bring joy and fulfillment to their families.
  • explanation:
    • Parenting a child with special needs can be challenging, but it can also be incredibly rewarding. These children often have unique perspectives and abilities that can enrich the lives of their families.

12.5.2 item Children with special needs cannot learn or achieve as much as other children.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Children with special needs can learn and achieve just as much as other children, but they may need different supports and accommodations.
  • explanation:
    • Children with special needs have the same potential as other children, but they may need different learning methods or accommodations to reach their full potential.

12.5.3 item Parents of children with special needs are always stressed and overwhelmed.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Parents of children with special needs can find joy and support in their journey.
  • explanation:
    • Parenting a child with special needs can be challenging, but it is also possible to find joy and support along the way. There are many resources available to help parents cope with the challenges and celebrate the joys of parenting a child with special needs.

12.5.4 item Children with special needs will never be able to live independently.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Many children with special needs can live independently with the right supports.
  • explanation:
    • With the right supports, many children with special needs can live fulfilling and independent lives. There are many resources available to help families plan for the future and ensure that their child has the supports they need to succeed.

12.5.5 item Parents of children with special needs should give up their own dreams and ambitions.

  • better_alternative_belief:
    • Parents of children with special needs can continue to pursue their dreams and ambitions with the right supports.
  • explanation:
    • Parenting a child with special needs can be demanding, but it is possible to find a balance that allows parents to pursue their own dreams and ambitions. There are many resources available to help parents find support and childcare so that they can continue to pursue their goals.